
Ailish Forfar wore her older brother’s hand-me-down hockey equipment the first time she was ever on ice.
She was learning to skate at a tiny arena in Sutton, Ont., waddling from end to end, when she dropped her stick. She bent down to pick it up and found that she couldn’t. Her brother’s gloves were too big. She knew her parents were watching, standing against the glass because there weren’t any stands at the arena and, like many three-year-olds would, she started crying.
Of course, the former Ryerson Rams women’s hockey captain has a much steadier grip today; that moment was 21 years ago and she now has gloves that fit.
“It was awful,” she said with a laugh. “I was out there with a bunch of people who were better than me.”
Today, Forfar skates in much bigger arenas as a member of the Markham Thunder in the Canadian Women’s Hockey League (CWHL).
For Forfar and her mother, Sophia, their earliest memory of hockey has always served as a reminder of where her journey started. Sophia uses it to ground Forfar if she’s having a tough time at school or on the ice, saying, “I remember when you were little and you couldn’t pick up your stick. Now look at you.”
And Sophia said the same thing to her daughter on the day of the third-year RTA student’s first CWHL game on Oct. 13.
“I called my parents. I was a little nervous, obviously,” Forfar said. “My mom reminded me, ‘Well, you know you used to be that little girl at that arena.’”
For the complete story, head to the Ryersonian, where the article was originally published.